If we’re talking about Afghanistan, I think the answer is, we had to “buy” it, so to speak, but we way overpaid.
The sheer magnitude of the 9/11 attacks on this country simply left us no choice but to respond, and quickly. Turning the other cheek, or waiting patiently for the best opportunity to strike back, were not options. We had to answer, and we did. This is America, so that usually means bombing something, which we did in spades within months in Afghanistan, and we came soooo close to taking out Osama bin Laden. Had we succeeded, there might not have been a 20-year war. But we didn’t, and there was. It was often said, we had to fight terrorism over there so we wouldn’t have to here. That rolled a little too easily off the tongue for my taste. But our blood was up. And we did hold off the Taliban for two decades. That’s not nothing.
In 2021, it was way past time for us to leave; there was virtually no argument about that. While the last-minute airlift of Americans and Afghans was truly heroic, it’s pretty clear that the process leading up to it was botched, and the world knows it.
That said, I wish the pundits would stop saying we were defeated or that we lost the war. We chose to leave. The Afghan government lost it by not bothering to fight it. As for our messy departure, some are saying that our exit from Vietnam was much worse, but for comparison, that’s a pretty low bar.
Was our time and money wasted in Afghanistan? Not entirely. True, we shouldn’t have tried nation-building, but if history serves, we were actually pretty good at it in Japan after World War II, though that was rebuilding. The problem with Afghanistan, as one writer has said, is that it is more of a place than an actual nation. Maybe that’s why it didn’t work there. Still, we did give many of its citizens, especially women, a good long taste of freedom, and hopefully, there will be enough Afghans ready to fight to get it back someday.
As for where we go from here, there has been much said in recent days about how great it was that this nation was truly united after the 9/11 attacks, and wouldn’t it be great if we could feel that way again. The trouble with that kind of unity is that it’s a reflex. The price we paid for it in 2001 was way too high. I hope someday we can get there by commitment instead.